Welcome to Becoming Her anyway (BHa)!

My name is Spotless Amponsah— a woman with many layers, always asking life’s big questions and trying to find meaning in the everyday. Becoming Her anyway has lived in my heart for years—but only recently did the vision come into focus.

I’ve always been a deep thinker, someone who reflects on everything—faith, love, purpose, pain. Now, in my mid-twenties, I’m navigating the confusing and sometimes heavy parts of this season: figuring out the future, dealing with heartbreak, growing through friendships and breakups, healing from loss, unlearning generational patterns, wrestling with faith and money, and doing my best to find who I really am.

I created this space for every girl and woman who’s ever felt caught in between—between who she’s been and who she’s becoming. Whether you’re just starting out or starting over, this is your space too. A place to feel seen, heard, safe. A place for the real and the raw. For the moments you don’t have it all together but are trying anyway.

Becoming Her anyway is a name that holds both grace and grit. It’s about showing up when you’re scared. Loving when it’s hard. Hoping when things feel uncertain. It’s about trusting God when He’s been quiet, and choosing yourself—even when the world tells you not to.

This is my sacred space. Many of these words come straight from the pages of my journal— collections from several years of reflecting on growth, conversations with God, faith, identity, healing, and all the in-between moments. I’ve learned that becoming doesn’t always look beautiful in its initial stages. Healing doesn’t always feel like progress. But I’m doing it. In joy and confusion, in peace and in doubt—I’m becoming her, anyway.

And I hope, as you read along, you feel the freedom to become your version of her… anyway.